July - 2009 Newsletter - It’s Never Too Late to Be Great!!
Wednesday, July 1st, 2009Hello Again, Singers!
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Happy July!! Hard to believe that 2009 is half over…already! Harder than that though to believe is the fact that my son is turning 40 this month, and my granddaughter is turning Sweet 16! How can that be?
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This month, I want to extend an invitation to each of you who read my newsletter, whether or not you are member of our Sing Your Life Community Singers Network, to submit question to me about singing, performing, or music in general, and have me answer it for you either publicly or privately.
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I’m doing this not merely to be nice, (which of course I am, I think…I hope), but because I have recently been reminded of the principle of “giving back�, and its power to heal, you know…like tithing.
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For 9 years now, whether you are aware of it or not, you singers have given me reasons to get out of bed every day and look for ways to serve you and your singing goals.
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You have provided me with endless moments of joy and satisfaction, and although our community of singers is growing every day, there are so many of you out there that I still need to reach, and to whom I want to be available for whatever is showing up in your life as a singer.
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I had an absolutely lovely gift this past Sunday. A lady in my town, a senior, had asked around for a voice teacher because she secretly yearned to learn how to sing for most of her life, but was afraid and shy to ever try.
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I was recommended to her, and when we met for the first session, she explained to me that she was being urged to enter this contest we have here in Corpus Christi called the “Miss Coastal Bend Senior� Pageant, and that she wanted her “talent� portion to be singing, but that she was afraid to sing in front of people.
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We started working together immediately since there were only 6 weeks left before the pageant. Her voice was fairly weak and she was very nervous and insecure…at first. However slowly, over the next month and a half, she got stronger…better…more confident, and on Sunday, she WON THE CONTEST!!

 She now goes to Dallas for the State pageant and may make it to the Nationals!  I’ve included these photos of my student who I’m so very proud of and let you guys SEE for yourselves what is possible when you ALLOW it to come into your life.
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Read on…
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It’s a human thing to want always to be right, and to feel secure with what we know. But let me tell you singers, that it is in the insecure moments, the weaker moments, the less certain positions we take, where the inner growth truly occurs.
I’ve been physically challenged since September of 2008 when I received some terrible news about a certain medical condition. Now let me tell you that I make it a point to steer clear of what I call MP’s, (no, not Military Police…Medical Professionals), for my entire adult life. I have never thought they knew anymore about the human body than any lat person could know, I never trusted a single MO to ever be straight with me, and I always said to anyone who would listen, “I live inside this body, and as long as I’m in here, nothing bad can happen to it�.
 A bold statement to be sure, and quite boastfully declared, but maybe not so certain have I always been of it, even as I said it.
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So when my fiercely guarded OPINIONS were poked full of holes last Fall, I was scared to death at first, and over the subsequent months since, enormously humbled by the experience. And it IS, I have found, this HUMILITY, which has given me the chance to know more than I ever thought I knew before.
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You’ve probably read it in the more recent newsletters…like when I have talked about not wanting to be so perfect, or letting go of your ego, and all that. This inner humility is where it’s been coming from, but also from a profound sense of love that I have for you singers, who have hung around for 9 years reading my stuff and offering your comments and encouragement. I don’t even know where to start with my thanks.
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It IS however, why I decided to create the Sing Your Life Community site as a companion to the original website, and why I want to entertain your questions, whatever they may be.
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I’ve started a Q&A Video Series and we’ve already covered questions like:
- Is it okay to close my eyes when I sing?
- Can I drastically change the sound of my singing voice?
- How do control my breathing when I sing?
- How do I get over my stage fright?
I’ve included a link to one of those sessions here for you to view as a sample of some of the things we do at our online community, and what a private session with me using Skype or Yahoo Messenger would look like.
http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/qa-session-2-breath-controlÂ
Okay, so let’s get back to my original point! The one about the preconceived opinions we humans seem to have a very difficult time letting go of sometimes.
If you will, even in your alone time, when there’s no one to impress with your knowledge and your abilities, admit that you don’t always have the answers to your life, your circumstances, your condition, and become humble enough to at least entertain another point of view from your own, some interesting and often wonderful things can occur, singers.
And this includes opportunities for going further than you ever thought possible, just like my student who won the Miss Coastal Bend Senior Pageant.
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So, let me implore you singers to not be so stubborn about what you already know. Do you really know it ALL? Can you let go of your certainties, and allow your brain to take in new information that may not agree with your “already always� preconceived notions and opinions?
 There is always time for climbing to new heights as a singer, heck! As a person! Just by existing, we have that opportunity. And we don’t run out of them until we’re in the ground!
Please visit here to listen to my last performance, as the featured jazz singer in great demand here in Corpus Christi!Â
http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/song-it-could-happen-to-you
http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/jazz-gig-water-street-walk-of
Over these last nine years, there have been moments when I just wanted to quit singing, quit teaching, quit writing newsletters that nobody read, and every single time, one of YOU, who I have never met, wrote to tell me of something wonderful that happened to you or something that you gained and attributed to some article I had written…and I was rejuvenated. So y’think I’m not profoundly grateful to you?? I AM!
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You singers have, and always will have a significant place in my heart!
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I want you guys to value yourselves as much I do by not giving up on your talent, and not quitting your dreams, okay???
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I am working on coming to LA for my annual performance workshop that I conduct and I will notify you SoCal’ers of dates as soon as I have ‘em.
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Keep singin’, people!!
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Until next time…
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Sin[g]cerely,
Chrys
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