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		<title>My daughter, the rock star!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 19:56:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Motivation &#038; Inspiration</category>
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The count down continues to my departure from the various features of Sing Your Life as it was created originally on the web in 2000&#8230;
This month, I am sadly having to let go of the long distance lessons. It has simply taken up too much time and the frustration with less than perfect synchronization [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Singers,</p>
<p>The count down continues to my departure from the various features of Sing Your Life as it was created originally on the web in 2000&#8230;</p>
<p>This month, I am sadly having to let go of the long distance lessons. It has simply taken up too much time and the frustration with less than perfect synchronization of sound and video has rendered<br />
the entire process more distracting for both the student and the teacher and<br />
not as helpful as I imagined.<br />
And once again, I don’t have the resources to increase the quality of the broadband. So it has to go…</p>
<p>On the other hand, and with a little more cheer, I have decided to bring the site down to only a few pages, improve the<br />
navigation and offer more FREEBIES to members of this mailing list.</p>
<p>In a few days, I will have completed compiling a list of all the POP backing tracks I have and I’ll be placing the list on the Members Only page. This list has taken a really long time because it’s the longest list and was housed in<br />
folders and subfolders I didn’t even know I had. But it’s getting there and will be available for download for<br />
you to select your most coveted tracks for only 75¢ each.</p>
<p>Of course, the singers social network is still going strong as a place where we singers can gather, sing for one another, discuss whatever we wish, (as long as<br />
it’s in good taste), blog, make videos, and share personal stories across the<br />
vastness of cyberspace. And I shall<br />
continue to blog on the importance of staying the course with the dreams you<br />
have of singing, for this is my mission.</p>
<p>As long as there is breath inside of you and the deep longing to sing your life’s story into the ethers, I am here to encourage that act and the courage it takes<br />
to keep that flame going long after those around you have decided that it’s<br />
just too late and/or that it’s time to grow up.</p>
<p>And that brings me to my featured talk for this month…</p>
<p>They say that we tend to TEACH that which we need to LEARN the most. I believe that’s true. In fact, I KNOW it! It is the reason I CAN NOT and WILL NOT let go of the passion that I’ve had for music since the age of 3. But more than that…</p>
<p>Well let me tell you a story…</p>
<p>The earliest performance of mine that I can recall was at about 5 or 6 years old, standing on a picnic table in a family friend’s back yard and singing a “La Vie En Rose”…</p>
<p>And feeling the praise and love from all those around me, I wanted that to go on forever. There was never a thought in my head as a small child that I would ever wish to do anything else with my life…only to sing and keep on singing…cause that’s where the love was…at least where I felt it the strongest.</p>
<p>But the times in which I came into my own, and my own lack of courage to go after my dream and possibly meet with disapproval from my loved ones, kept me from my life’s dream. And although I made a life and a living from singing for a long<br />
time, raising my children and gaining respect and admiration form fellow musicians…</p>
<p>Well…In the words of Terry Malloy, the character in the movie, “On The Waterfront”, played by probably one of the top 5 greatest actors of all time, Marlon Brando, “I coulda been a contender. I coulda BEEN somebody…”</p>
<p>Now don’t misunderstand me here. I am not by any stretch whining about the fact that I never DID get to sing at Radio<br />
City Music Hall, (Hey, it could still happen…). <img src='http://singyourlife.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I tell you this because the ONLY real joy we get to experience in this life, is the joy that we ourselves create. The “yeah, but’s” that our loved ones shower upon us may be meant well, but only<br />
keeps us from our dreams.</p>
<p>Courage! That’s the mantra!! And having said that, I am so so proud of my daughter, Jen Olive, (www.jenolive.com), who unlike her mother, has had the guts and passion to stay the course for over 20 years, through bad times and bad relationships, and raising 2 kids, and is still coming out on top!!</p>
<p>She was signed to an Indie record label in the UK last year, and yesterday, her CD was released to a throng of accolades and fan approval. I am posting a link to the video she did in the studio at APE HOUSE records, her label.<br />
http://apehouse.prevuz.com/2010/03/jen-olive-querquehouse-live/</p>
<p>I could not be more inspired…Hope you will be too…</p>
<p>And while the style of music she offers may not be palatable to the masses,<br />
(Taylor Swift, she ain&#8217;t, ha ha. And Thank Goodness!), the musicianship, the vocals, the uniqueness of her compositions, the choiring reminiscent of the Beach Boys, Carpenters, and even Les Paul and Mary Ford, cannot be denied. It does weave a spell&#8230;but then I&#8217;m her mom so&#8230;</p>
<p>My point is this. When I tell you NOT to compare yourself with any other artist, I realize I have just asked you to &#8220;NOT THINK OF A PINK ELEPHANT&#8221;.</p>
<p>So perhaps I should be saying&#8230;OKAY, compare away, but know this: The result of your &#8220;research&#8221; will be that you will find that about 50% of singers you hear will be better than you and about 50% of them will not be as good.</p>
<p>The truth is that of the 40 million telephone votes for singers in last night&#8217;s &#8220;IDOL&#8221; show, the lowest number of votes are still more than enough to sustain a career. So whoever goes home tonight will still have opportunities to sing and perform and have a successful career. Google any of the top ten from seasons past, who sing for the love and passion of it and NOT the celebrity, and you&#8217;ll find working singers, not waiters and sales girls.</p>
<p>Check it out for yourself:<br />
http://www.watchingamericanidol.com/category/where-are-they-now/</p>
<p>So I have no desire or intention to go quietly into that good night. And neither should any singer who still has the desire and ability to GIVE!</p>
<p>&#8220;He who lets his breath, hence his life force, flow consentingly as a willing sound sacrifice from the depths of his body, sings his life; for singing means to affirm life, to free oneself, and thereby to bring happiness and prosperity to oneself, and consequently to one&#8217;s fellow man.&#8221; Marius Schneider</p>
<p>See ya next time, singers!!</p>
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		<title>Practice Makes Permanent, NOT Perfect!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 03:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Motivation &#038; Inspiration</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I don&#8217;t know how many times I have said it, but I find myself having to clarify it again. Many of my students who have read my articles and watched my videos get confused when I talk about over-rehearsing a performance and how it can interfere with being spontaneous when we perform our act. 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know how many times I have said it, but I find myself having to clarify it again. Many of my students who have read my articles and watched my videos get confused when I talk about over-rehearsing a performance and how it can interfere with being spontaneous when we perform our act. </p>
<p>And at the same time I tell them to practice until a particular element of singing is on auto-pilot so that they don&#8217;t have to think about technique when they&#8217;re  performing.</p>
<p>So let me see if I can explain these seemingly contrary points of view, okay?</p>
<p>I just got finished watching the final match of the Australian Open Tennis Tournament. Roger Federer, probably the greatest player ever to play the game of tennis was playing against Andy Murray, a younger player from Scotland.</p>
<p>Throughout the match, the commentators on 3 different channels, which broadcast the event, spoke about Roger&#8217;s dedication, hard work, and commitment to the game. It was mentioned that Roger&#8217;s incredible success is due largely to the hours upon hours of practice he puts in daily to maintain the apparent ease with which he hits a tennis ball each and every time he enters the court. I agree&#8230;even though I&#8217;ve also said that over-doing a practice session can be detrimental to a singing performance.</p>
<p>So while there are similarities in the way we approach singing and the way an athlete approaches his sport, I think I had better make this glaring distinction. </p>
<p>Singing is a unique art form that is created in front of an audience which watches it come to life as it is being made&#8230;much like watching a tennis player in action. Practicing the technical elements is to make it look easy during our performance, just as Roger&#8217;s practice sessions are to make his strokes look graceful and fluid to the spectators. Roger&#8217;s technique, as any tennis player&#8217;s is THE VERY THING that the fans of tennis have come to see, but they are also moved by his demeanor on the court. If he is obviously loving what he is doing, people feel it.</p>
<p>The singer&#8217;s technique is an important part of his performane, but it will not mean much unless the performance makes an emotional connection with the ones watching it. So while I say, yes, you MUST practice the techniques until they are on auto-pilot, you must be careful not to over-rehearse you performance and risk losing it&#8217;s spontaneity.</p>
<p>And there&#8217;s also that intangible quality of both the art of the tennis match and the vocal performance, and it is simply&#8230;does the one performing display how much he or she loves what he is doing? For fans respond to that quality at a deep level.</p>
<p>The techniques can be practiced until they become second nature, but the delivery, the quality of the communication one will make with the audience has to come from the heart and be genuine&#8230;not rehearsed.</p>
<p>Does that make any sense?<br />
Have I confused you even further?</p>
<p>Write to me or leave your comments on our Singers Social Network Site, www.SingYourLife.ning.com.<br />
JOIN US!!</p>
<p>Oh! Forgot to tell you! The final chapter of &#8220;Get Off the Bandstand&#8221; is finished, and the entire manuscript can be viewed on the members only page on the main Singyourlife site. And I am also posting it on the Singers Social Network as part of my monthly blog.</p>
<p>Also, I found a slew of tracks that I had forgotten to put on the lists I made, so if there&#8217;s a particular track you&#8217;re looking for, just ask me okay? Remember, I&#8217;m letting them all go for 75 cents per track.<br />
The lists are on the members only page along with a whole bunch of free stuff. As a member of the Singers Social Network, you are entitled to all the freebies over there, including lead sheets, my e-books on singing and performing, and more, so come on over and join us!<br />
http://www.singyourlife.ning.com</p>
<p>Sin[g]cerely,<br />
Chrys</p>
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		<title>Setting the mission and tone for 2010!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Dec 2009 20:28:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Setting the mission and tone for 2010!!
 
The world had changed a great deal since I started the Sing Your Life website back in 1999. There seems to be an unspoken mandate which hovers above my head, and more or less demands that I change to keep up with the rest of the world…And I’ve resisted&#8230;but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><u><font size="3">Setting the mission and tone for 2010!!<br />
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<p><font size="3">The world had changed a great deal since I started the Sing Your Life website back in 1999. There seems to be an unspoken mandate which hovers above my head, and more or less <strong>demands</strong> that I change to keep up with the rest of the world…And I’ve resisted&#8230;but no more…not this time.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I think that as we get older, we need more stability in our environs and tend to get pretty stubborn about changing with the times. I was talking to a dear friend the other day, a piano player who I work with here in town, and he said something that rang so true for me. He said, “…my lady friend complains a lot that I live in the past too much, but ya know? It was better then, dammit!”<br />
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<p><font size="3">We both laughed.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I’m not so sure it really WAS better then. I think now that it’s in the past, whatever it is, and we know it well and it’s familiar and has become comfortable, it may <strong>seem</strong> better. God knows, as we get older, the future becomes more and more ominous, so the past, even if it really stunk, does provide some comfort….the “devil you know” kind of thing.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">The truth is, in my view, that NOW is all we ever really get, and to embrace NOW is to reduce the fears and anxieties of that which has not yet happened, and to calm the sorrows of our past mistakes…so that’s where I am steering my boat. And I invite you to come with me into 2010, singers!!<br />
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<p><font size="3">I feel the urge to complete a whole lotta projects this year:<br />
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<ul type="disc">
<li><font size="3">“Close Enough For Jazz” – A memoir- (pecking at it, but very slowly.)<br />
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<li><font size="3">The Complete Video Vocal Performance Course – (start looking for new videos in January)<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">Development of an ongoing Performance Workshop, including the art of Cabaret, the art of Auditioning, and more… (done with local students and we’re looking to video the process for all of you to see)<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">The completion of “Get Off The Bandstand” – Last installment coming in February.)<br />
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<li><font size="3">The completion of a short story I’ve been writing for 40 years. (Obviously, I have severe writers’ block on this. Ha ha!)<br />
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<li><font size="3">The completion of the final CD, (working title: “The Delights &#038; Distresses of Growing Old” – just gotta call Barney and BEGIN!)<br />
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<li><font size="3">Completion of the Backing Track Project – (to sell off entire remaining inventory)<br />
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<p><strong><font size="3">I believe I need to finish these things not because I may be getting ready to depart the earth or anything dramatic like that. No! I seem to want to finish these things so I can get them all out of my head, and I can then sit on the beach and watch the boats go by, or the flight of a blue heron, or the gentle kiss of the waves against the rocks along the bayfront here in Corpus Christi, and to simply exhale a sigh…and enjoy the view.<br />
</font></strong><strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></strong><font size="3">And at the same time, even as I write that, I recognize all too well that sitting on the beach with nothing to do is the very worse thing that I could do, ha ha!<br />
</font><font size="3">Staying youthful and vital for as long as possible requires constant engagement with Life on a moment-by-moment basis, so while I yearn for leisure as most aging working people tend to do, the projects are really my fuel for staying active and engaged. Kinda funny, huh? Or maybe just ironic??<br />
</font><font size="3">Like I keep telling my sister when she sighs and says she’s so tired, “Be careful what you wish for, Doll! The Universe is always listening and if you want a rest, you might just get one…and then really hate it.”<br />
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<p><strong><u><font size="3">UPDATE!<br />
</font></u></strong><font size="3">For those of you who may be interested, I have recently completed the Standards and Jazz BT list and have posted it on the <strong><a href="http://www.singyourlife.com/for_members_only.htm"><font color="#800080">Members Only Page</font></a></strong> of my website…and to end any confusion, when I say <strong>“MY website”,</strong> I am speaking of <strong><a href="http://www.singyourlife.com/"><font color="#800080">www.singyourlife.com</font></a>/</strong><br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">When I say <strong>“OUR website”,</strong> or <strong>“the COMMUNITY Singers’ site”,</strong> or <strong>“the Singers’ Network page”,</strong> I am speaking of <strong><a href="http://www.singyourlife.ning.com/"><font color="#800080">www.singyourlife.ning.com</font></a>.<br />
</strong></font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I guess I shoulda named our community a little differently ‘cause many of you have gotten somewhat lost looking for things. Forgive me. Hope I’ve made things a little clearer for ya now.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Anyway, since my niche group of singers is mainly interested in Standards and Broadway tracks, everything from those categories is now posted and you may browse the lists at your leisure and send me your requests whenever. <strong>REMEMBER!  I have reduced the cost to 75</strong><strong>¢ per track, so get ‘em while you can.<br />
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<p><font size="3">Here is <strong><u>Installment #6 of “Get Off The Bandstand”<br />
</u></strong></font><font size="3">This month’s section is extra long to make up for the month I missed in November. The final section shall come to you in February, 2010.<br />
</font><em><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></em><em><font size="3"> (previously, I spoke of what it means to SHARE the stage with other musicians, and the nuances of hand signals in the unspoken language of jazz… we continue now with the rules for the vocalist…)<br />
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<p><font size="3">Here is an excerpt of what is contained in this installment?<br />
</font><em><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">“Can you just imagine saving all your pennies to go see a Broadway show and because the performance you are viewing happens to be the 200<sup>th</sup> time the performers have sung this music? Can you just imagine what it would sound and look like to you, the listener if the actors and singers were bored to tears with this show?<br />
</font></font></em><em><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"> </font></p>
<p></em><em><font size="3"><font face="Times New Roman">You would leave that theater, feeling empty inside but not really understanding why. You might comment that you were disappointed and felt that it lacked a certain energy that you were expecting, and you might think it was the failure of the voices, or the acoustics in the theater, or the band was too loud, or the dancing was amateurish, but what really was the root of your displeasure was the simple fact that the players on the stage were bored…and so…you were too.”<br />
</font></font></em><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><u><font size="3">Moving to the Side<br />
</font></u><u><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></u><font size="3">In the world of Jazz, it’s considered rude to stand in the center of the stage, hogging audience attention that should be on the band. It shows a lack of regard for the musicians, and for their participation in the music itself. It also shows a lack of professionalism on the part of the singer. Instrumentalists refer to singers like that as “clueless”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I was on a job once where the singer stood smack in the middle of the stage after she had sung the first time through the song, and she actually hummed along with the instrumentalists’ solos. Another time, that same singer talked OVER the solos, telling stories to the audience. As you can imagine, that singer was NOT asked to sit in with that band ever again. She didn’t understand and had to be told that the gig was NOT her personal showcase, and while her stories might work in a Cabaret setting, they amount to a lack of considersation on a Jazz gig.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">The correct and respectful move is to stand on the side, either left or right, and allow the band to play…as long as they want to.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In college I was privileged to sing with a great band called “The Jazz Explorers”, and we worked all over the college town of Ithaca, New York. One night we were in an exclusive jazz club, where elite jazz fans only were admitted!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I sang “Night in Tunisia”, by Dizzy Gillespie, moved to the edge of the bandstand and let the saxophone take it. He was in rare form that night and having recognized that he had the audience with him, he kept playing…and playing…and playing. He must’ve played 10 choruses or more. The crowd was in a frenzy of delight listening to him. Can you even imagine, what would’ve happened if I had interrupted that?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">When they were ready to give it back to me, they let me know with a nod.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Jazz musicians <strong>depend on intercommunication</strong> to achieve and maintain a sense of spontaneity.  They encourage each other vocally or through their instruments to attain higher levels of performance. The connection with an audience is also vocal and visceral.<br />
</font><font size="3">Because an original function of jazz was to accompany social dancers, a jazz audience&#8217;s physical responses signaled the musicians to continue or heighten their level of intensity.<br />
</font><font size="3">Among musicians themselves, the jam session exists as the central agency for communicating in a common musical language, in an atmosphere of collective<br />
</font><font size="3">spontaneity. Parallels between the sense of community in a jam session and an open forum of discussants are clear &#8211;a successful session, like group conversation, depends on courtesy, decorum, and mutual respect as well as open-mindedness and willingness to listen. Thus, the connection between<br />
</font><font size="3">music and language manifests itself in the jazz context.<br />
</font><font size="3">[from &#8220;What Is Hip?&#8221; And Other Inquiries In Jazz Slang Lexicography by Rick McRae]<br />
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<p><u><font size="3">Listening, Appreciating, and Learning<br />
</font></u><u><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></u><font size="3">Please remember, singers, it’s a collaboration, not a showcase! So what do you do as the vocalist when you’re over there on the edge of bandstand while the sax, and the trombone, and the piano and the bass and drum are taking solos?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You listen and applaud right along with the audience.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Because they ARE watching you! The audience I mean! They are watching…you, and the all of the artists on the stage. They want to see if the music is as appreciated by each of you who are creating it as it is by them, the listeners.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Does the sax player like the way the pianist takes his solo? Does the trombone player smile when the bass player is taking his?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">It’s an secret language of sorts that give jazz it’s ethereal mysterious, quality that allows an audience to imagine and picture scenarios of its own.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">If you, or any other musician on stage were to look disinterested while someone is soloing, that would interrupt the mood and take much of the magic out of the overall performance.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"><strong>(This next section is pretty technical, so feel free to bypass it and go straight to “Continuing Your Musical Education”)<br />
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<p></u><u><font size="3">Learn and Understand “Trading Fours”<br />
</font></u><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">There’s a particular feature of jazz playing that does not exist in any other genre of music, and it’s called “trading fours”.<br />
</font><strong><font size="3">This particular musical device is a technique in which the musicians alternate brief solos of four bars each, usually occurring after each musician has had a chance to play a solo, and often involves alternating four-bar segments with the drummer.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3">Most tunes played in a jazz setting are written in a 32 bar format. For example,<br />
</font><font size="3">take the tune “Teach Me Tonight”. This song has 32 measures or bars. The first section, (“A”) contains 8 measures, which is then repeated, (2<sup>nd</sup> <img src='http://singyourlife.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' />  with different words, followed by a “bridge” of 8 more bars with a different melody line and different words, and then what is called the “last 8” with the same melody as the 2<sup>nd</sup> 8, but with different words. This format is called AABA, or a “Standard” format.<br />
</font><font size="3">When the musicians decide to trade 4’s to this tune, it could look like this, (although there are multiple varieties of trading 4’s which we’ll see later.):<br />
</font><font size="3">Starting at the beginning of the song:<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Saxophone improvises on melody</u>: “Did you say I go a lot to learn. Well Don’t think I’m trying not to learn”. That’s 4 measures of music.<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Drummer plays</u>:  “Since this is the perfect spot to learn. Teach me tonight”. 4 bars<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Piano improvises on melody</u>: “Starting with the abc of it, right down to the xyz of it” 4 bars<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Drummer plays</u>: “help me solve the mystery of it. Teach me Tonight”<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Trombone improvises on bridge</u>: “the sky’s a blackboard high above you. If a shooting star goes by”<br />
</font><font size="3">Drummer: “I’ll use that star to write I love you, 1000 times across the sky”.<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Bass</u>: “One thing isn’t very clear my love. Should the teacher stand so near my love”<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Drummer</u>: “graduation’s almost here my love, teach me tonight.”<br />
</font><font size="3">Now understand singers, I’ve written the words so that you can understand the way the song is divided up when trading 4’s. Naturally these musicians are NOT singing the words, they are improvising on the melody.<br />
</font><font size="3">Furthermore, the song can be played over and over again in this trading 4’s arrangement so that it builds to a great dramatic cadence!  Audiences absolutely adore this device cause it’s joyful and celebratory! And it gets everyone involved at once, and is just plain FUN!!<br />
</font><font size="3">And let me say…If, as a singer you are ever invited to trade fours (4’s) during a piece, consider it the highest honor you will ever have bestowed upon you as a jazz singer. But learn to SCAT first!<br />
</font><font size="3"><u>Continuing Your Musical Education</u><br />
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<p><font size="3">Singers! If you should ever get to that place and time in your life where you feel you have learned all there is to know about the music you sing, do yourself a favor and everyone else as well…and QUIT!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And actually, this step is meant for all singers of every genre, style, and level.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In recent years, the majority of my students have been ladies over 50, who have not stopped learning, desiring, and expressing. In fact, these women enthusiastically drink in everything they can about singing and performing music.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">When the market gurus tell you to find a niche you can love, I DO understand that, because, it is these women, with the energy of children, and the wide-eyed thrill of discovering their voices, that keeps me young and vital every day.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Can you just imagine saving all your pennies to go see a Broadway show and because the performance you are viewing happens to be the 200<sup>th</sup> time the performers have sung this music? Can you just imagine what it would sound and look like to you, the listener if the actors and singers were bored to tears with this show?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You would leave that theater, feeling empty inside but not really understanding why. You might comment that you were disappointed and felt that it lacked a certain energy that you were expecting, and you might think it was the failure of the voices, or the acoustics in the theater, or the band was too loud, or the dancing was amateurish, but what really was the root of your displeasure was the simple fact that the players on the stage were bored…and so…you were too.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">A Broadway Show, especially a Broadway show, has to be played and sung with the exact same vitality on the last day of the run, that it had on Opening Night!<br />
</font><font size="3">No, it’s not that easy, which is why many extremely successful and long-running musicals change cast members halfway through…to keep it fresh and exciting for the audience.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">That being the case, can you just imagine what it can be like to have a singing gig in a supper club several nights a week and have regular customers who come in for a drink just to hear you sing their favorite song? How would it be for that customer if your singing was lazy and unenthused? Think he’d want to give you that $5. tip you were expecting? Think he’d continue to show up night after night?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I know these things singers, because as they say, “been there, done that”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">My point is this: As long as you are still growing musically, and still finding new and wonderful ways to express the music you are singing, it will always be fresh and exciting…always!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Remember when you were a small child and your Mom bought you your first box of crayons? There were 8 crayons in the box, right? And the colors were red, blue, green, yellow, orange, brown, white and black.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You drew pictures and colored in coloring books and spend countless hours of enjoyment with your colors…until those crayons were broken and in teeny pieces all over the floor, and then one day….your Mom came home with a big surprise for you.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">A new box of crayons with twice the number of colors of your old box. Wow!!!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You opened the new box and saw all these NEW colors inside. You reached into the box to grab one and which one did you choose first?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I would wager that you chose a color from the first box…a color you knew. The familiar colors had a certain warmth and safety about them, and I’ll bet it took a little while to “get to know” those new colors in the box, so you were careful at first, using only the colors you knew. If you Mom was smart, she let you decide which colors to use and didn’t force any new ones on you, knowing that when you ready, you’d explore this new horizon on your own.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And that you did! One <strong>day you grabbed the purple crayon and drew a line.</strong><br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">WOWEEEWOW!! How great that looked!! Such a cool color! That was the beginning of your willingness to try all the rest of the colors in the box.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">When I am teaching a student of mine how to put his or her own stamp on a song, it’s very similar to a kid with a box of crayons. The singer will sing what he knows and feels comfortable with until there comes a time when he feels an urge to stretch himself and try something knew. Many…many students of jazz singing will suppress that urge for sometimes…well…years. Why?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">The simple answer is FEAR! Fear of making a mistake, fear of sounding off key or cracking, fear of the unknown…plain and simple!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">But here’s the thing! Once the student overcomes that fear and allows himself to try something knew and pushes himself to keep trying in spite of what he may hear as unpleasant, he is growing and learning and getting better and better with each attempt.<br />
</font><u><font size="3">The Purple Crayon<br />
</font></u><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">It starts with a single note. Instead of singing that line exactly the way you did the first time, change just ONE single note….just one. The first time my students do this, there appears a smile that begins at the corners of each mouth, like they just did something really great, and it grows and grows with each move they make in the song.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"><strong><u>RULE</u></strong>! You never let the music get old, boring, or flat. You look for and find anything at all, even just a single note that will change a line or change a mood, and change YOUR OWN ATTITUDE about the song.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">And remember please, it’s not about impressing others, it’s always about Expressing YOU!<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In the 70’s I was fortunate enough to have a steady singing gig in NYC. My partner Lenny and I worked in some of New York’s classiest clubs and we did so, 6 nights a week with Sundays off.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">We had a loyal clientele, including some of New York’s most famous, or shall I say INFAMOUS mobsters. They loved us…mainly ‘cause we sang a lot of Sinatra, but they were extremely generous when it came to showing their appreciation.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">One guy, Louie, loved the song, “Help Me Make it Through the Night”, so whenever he came in to the club, I‘d sing it for him.<br />
</font><font size="3">Now, I’m not a big fan of Country, but let’s face it, when Louie, who was a hit-man for one of the illustrious Italian families of New York, requests a song, you sing and you sing it with gusto! And the more gusto, (emotion, feeling, drama) you sing it with, the bigger the appreciation.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">So an attitude change for Country music was definitely in order for me. And I actually learned to love that song, the more I sang it and changed it, here and there, differently every time. And I made a ton of money with it as well.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"><strong><u>RULE</u></strong>: If you’re a jazz singer, you cannot sing a song the same way twice.<br />
</font><font size="3">If you do, there is no spontaneity and without that…well, it ain’t Jazz, see?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And as a Jazz singer, singing other genres for the jobs you go on becomes a fun experience for you because you find little ways to alter the songs so that you never tire of them or get bored with them.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Keep learning…keep growing…always…always, singers!<br />
</font><font size="3"><em>(To be completed next month with the final chapter, “IS JAZZ just about the MUSIC?”)</em> <br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">‘til next time, Singers!!<br />
</font><font size="3">Chrys<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[After-Thanksgiving Issue, 2009
Hi Singers!
Gads! So much to tell you guys!
First, I sin[g]cerely hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and used the day to seriously count your blessings and feel the gratitude that is needed to physically alter you earthly experience. The longer I live and the more I read about spiritual matters, the clearer it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After-Thanksgiving Issue, 2009</p>
<p>Hi Singers!<br />
Gads! So much to tell you guys!</p>
<p>First, I sin[g]cerely hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and used the day to seriously count your blessings and feel the gratitude that is needed to physically alter you earthly experience. The longer I live and the more I read about spiritual matters, the clearer it becomes that if we express gratitude, the vibration we generate in that expression can actually change things in our lives&#8230;practically over night.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to be upset, annoyed, or bitter about the economy for instance, and I certainly am not recommending we jump up and down in enthusiasm for it, but what I AM suggesting is that we quietly thank our version of God, (Source, The Almighty, The Universe, Divine Creator of ALL that exists, whatever you call it), for the the good things we have&#8230;like family and friends and health instead of focussing on the bad stuff. It really does help! As Ghandi put it, &#8220;Be the change you wish see&#8221;.</p>
<p>Let me wish you each and every singer who read this blog a wonderful holiday season&#8230; whichever holiday you celebrate.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what happening in my world&#8230;.</p>
<p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br />
My toilet tissue list of &#8220;projects&#8221; grew like crazy and I never DID get everything completed in the time I gave myself, but here&#8217;s the thing. I figure, since I, and no one else, created the time-table, I could also change it and thereby alter the deadline I originally set for these projects. And so I did that!! Easy! Problem solved! It&#8217;s so simple when you give your permission to take the pressure off&#8230;ha ha!</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s an update on where I am with each project:</p>
<p>The Video Collection:<br />
I am working on a professional vocal series that covers these questions: (each video to run about 30-45 minutes)</p>
<p>1. If you Can Talk&#8230;You can Sing!<br />
2. The Role of ego in a vocal performance<br />
3. The Competitive Singer or the Creative Singer? Which are You?<br />
4. Don&#8217;t forget to breathe.<br />
5. Being more than a singer&#8230;being a musician!<br />
6. Expression vs. Impression<br />
7. Let&#8217;s Put On a Show!!<br />
8. PRACTICE does not make perfect. PRACTICE MAKES PERMANENT!<br />
9. Perfectionism vs. Authenticity<br />
10. Mis-takes&#8230;Take 2!</p>
<p>If you are a member of the Sing Your Life Community, you can receive advanced copies of each series of lessons for your review prior to their publication and distribution to the public. Further, if you care to share your viewing experience on any of the lesson packages, you receive special gifts from SYL!</p>
<p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</p>
<p>Sing Your Life is Out of the Backing Track Business! We were thankfully put out of business by a site that allows the buyer to change the key right there on the displayed page PRIOR to actually purchasing the track.<br />
Now, when I say &#8220;thankfully&#8221; put us put of business, I am saying that the job of locating a track in my database, listening to it, transposing it into the appropriate key for the customer, (and this is a long and arduous process if the singer has no idea of the keys he or she sings in), compressing the file for easy transport through email, or singing it myself if a vocal guide track was not available&#8230;all these steps were taking a good deal of time and I simply ran out of those luxurious hours. And that&#8217;s where the pressure was mounting &#8230;so much that I eventually made myself ill.</p>
<p>Finding the site with which we are now affiliated has freed up the time we can now devote to the Video Packages, and the 2010 plans for all of you singers.</p>
<p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br />
We have several projects in the works for 2010&#8230;</p>
<p>1.Along with the Videos mentioned above, we are developing a workshop for those singers who want to perform in front of a &#8220;live&#8221; audience with a &#8220;live&#8221; accompaniment, like a band or a pianist, or guitar player.<br />
Using a group of local students as a model of sorts, (or guinea pigs as they may call themselves, LOL), we have secured a local venue where each singer can showcase their own act of about 30 minutes in front of an audience. The singer will put a showcase together with my coaching help, work out the theme, the keys, the patter, etc., and then rehearse the whole thing with an accompanist and perform it on a Friday or Saturday night at a local coffee house.<br />
I&#8217;m considering getting the entire process recorded with each student from the brain-storming<br />
process to the actual performance, which I will post for my internet singers to use as a guide of how to put a show together.</p>
<p>2. There are several older singers in our community who I want to gather around and put on a seminar of sorts, a cyber-seminar on performance expression. I guess it&#8217;s part of the maturation of us singers that contributes to the disappearance of a self-conscious performance, &#8217;cause our younger singers don&#8217;t seem as comfortable on stage. I thought it might help them if some of us older ladies, who have &#8220;been there, done that&#8221;, share our own experiences and tips on what we&#8217;ve done to get over the &#8220;butterflies&#8221; that come with singing in front of strangers.</p>
<p>3. Later in the year, we will start working on an original Christmas Song which I wrote along with my older sister who provided the lyrics.<br />
There wasn&#8217;t enough time to work on it this year because the arrangement for chorus was not completed until late October. The choir arrangement has been written by my dear friend, Barney McClure, who is a renowned composer and arranger of vocal music, including songs for vocal jazz ensemble and choirs of 100 or more singers. Barney is also the gentleman<br />
who arranged my recording of &#8220;Where Do You Start&#8221;, which I posted to our Community Pages last month. He was so impressed with my Chrsitmas tune, he arranged it and published that arrangement, which means that the song is currently being distributed to Universities and Colleges and Church Choirs all over the country. This&#8217;ll be a real treat for those of us who can read music, and who enjoy singing with a group. We will begin work in August of 2010. I will post the music for you to download and practice.</p>
<p>And BTW, check out Barney&#8217;s arrangement of a song her wrote called &#8220;Before the Rain&#8221; at: http://www.barneymcclure.com/. I just melted when I heard those harmonies.</p>
<p>4. Yes!, Virginia! I WILL complete the sage of &#8220;Get Off the Bandstand&#8221;. It will have an ending&#8230;and an important lesson, so stay tuned.</p>
<p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</p>
<p>That&#8217;s just an outline of our agenda coming up, singers. I will continue to post free video clips based on questions and concerns I receive from you singers, so if you are working on something and need some advice or you have issues with vocal and performance matters, just let me know, okay?</p>
<p>Have a wonderfully joyful and fulfilling holiday, singers, and we&#8217;ll see you next year!!</p>
<p>Sin[g]cerely,<br />
Chrys</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[LA was grand! Got to conduct my vocal performance workshop with my west coast students that I hadn&#8217;t seen in ages, and it felt really good to hear them each sing for me again. I never get over the good feelings that permeate and penetrate the space when folks who love music get together to sing. It [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LA was grand! Got to conduct my vocal performance workshop with my west coast students that I hadn&#8217;t seen in ages, and it felt really good to hear them each sing for me again. I never get over the good feelings that permeate and penetrate the space when folks who love music get together to sing. It keeps me young and motivated to keep promoting the joy of singing for its own sake and not only for material gain.</p>
<p>I want to let you all know that I am available for &#8220;live&#8221; workshops if we can pull together at least 8 singers in one location. Judging by the info I have on my mailing list, there are several of you in Canada, both on the eastern side around  Toronto and Montreal, and on the west coast like Vancouver.  There are also quite a few of you on the Minnesota area, and some other places as well.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to experience the Sing Your Life vocal performance workshop, please contact me and I will put you in touch with other singers in your area.</p>
<p>I also wanted to tell you that you can now experience a <strong>free half hour consultation</strong> with me on Skype. The call is free and so is the lesson, and you get an idea of how my &#8220;live&#8221; lessons are conducted. All you need is a webcam, a computer microphone and Skype.</p>
<p>The tracks are still being put together on lists that you can download from the Members Only Page&#8230;so keep checking and downloading the lists you don&#8217;t have yet, make your choices and send me the entire file!</p>
<p>Okay, here&#8217;s the next installment of &#8220;Get Off the Bandstand&#8221;. Enjoy!!</p>
<p><em>(Previously, I told you about the &#8220;big star&#8221; that treated the band very badly, and the consequences that ensued. This time we explore the proper way to act around the musicians who are playing with you and for you.)</em></p>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><u><font size="3">CHAPTER TWO<br />
</font></u><font size="3">Honoring The Musician<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">More than in any other style of music, a Jazz singer must know what it means to honor her fellow musicians. Why? Because Jazz is a collaborative process where each and every member of the band, including the singer, are integral parts of a total expression, a story where each individual instrument represents a chapter without which the story would be incomplete.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">So first and foremost, understand your PART!<br />
</font></strong><strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></strong></p>
<ul type="disc">
<li><font size="3">Don’t walk up onto a bandstand without knowing the song you’re going to sing, the key it’s in and its tempo&#8230;and how to count it off.<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">Know the sign language to indicate, Back to the Beginning, (Top) or Extended Ending (Tag), etc.<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">Don’t talk, just sing!<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">At the end of the first chorus, (a chorus of a song is the complete song, sung or played ONE time through), step to the side and allow the other musicians who wish to participate, play their instruments.<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">Listen to what they are playing, and applaud with the audience when each instrumentalist finishes his solo.<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">Learn and understand “Trading Fours”.<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">Have Fun!<br />
</font></li>
</ul>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Okay, let’s take these one by one, shall we?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"><u>Knowing your song, the key, the tempo</u>.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Absolutely, the most crucial and telling aspect of your performance as a Jazz Vocalist is your musical knowledge when you approach the bandstand.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">If you do not know the keys you sing in, you truthfully have<br />
</font></strong><strong><font size="3">NO BUSINESS UP THERE…PERIOD!<br />
</font></strong><strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In addition to knowing the key your song is in, you must of course know<br />
</font></p>
<ul type="disc">
<li><font size="3">ALL of the words by heart, (no lyric sheets please, this isn’t Karaoke),<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">and if the keyboard player doesn’t know your chosen song, you should have a lead sheet available. (A Lead Sheet is the melody line and the Chord Progressions, and sometimes the lyrics, but not necessarily).<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">The lead sheet must be IN YOUR KEY, and not be just a piece of sheet music you purchased at the local music store.<br />
</font></li>
</ul>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Look, if you sing the song in Bb and you hand the keyboardist a piece of sheet music that’s in the key of G, you are forcing him to instantly transpose each chord, which I can tell you, most players HATE to do that on the bandstand ‘cause it acts as a distraction to their expression. More likely than not, you’ll be asked to sing it in G so his life can be a little easier.<br />
</font><font size="3">Point being that if you don’t want to be singing in uncomfortable keys, bring music in YOUR keys.<br />
</font><font size="3">·</font>        <font size="3">And Always bring a copy for the bass player as well.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><u><font size="3">Knowing the Signs<br />
</font></u><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">On a Jazz bandstand the talking is done through the music, so there is a minimum of talking. Therefore Jazz musicians have developed a sort of “sign language” to indicate things to each other. Often the leader will call a song and hold up 3 fingers with which he points down to the floor, This means the song is in 3 flats or the  key of Eb. That tells all the players on the stage where the song is likely to begin and end. It’s called setting the “tonality”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Jazz singers should make it their business to learn keys and be able to communicate to their musicians the key the tune is to be played in without having to yell it all over the stage.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">It is also very helpful to signal the musicians when you’re preparing to sing the song out, (that is, sing the last chorus), whether you’ll be coming back in at the beginning, or the middle.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Usually, with a ballad, you can be more effective by coming back at the Bridge, so as not to draw the slower song out too much and possibly lose your listeners. Oh, and by the way, know what the “Bridge” of the song IS. And for that matter, “the First 8”, “Last 8”, “Tag”, “Intro”, “Bail Out”, etc.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Here are just a very few signs, (there are many more found in jazz theory books and websites):<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">·</font>        <font size="3">Index finger on nose = back to bridge<br />
</font><font size="3">·</font>        <font size="3">Hand on top of head = back to the beginning<br />
</font><font size="3">·</font>        <font size="3">Outline circle with index finger = Tag<br />
</font><font size="3">·</font>        <font size="3">Key of song = number of flats, using fingers pointed down. Ex: Key of F, one finger pointed down, (1 flat),  or Key of D, 2 fingers pointed up, (2 sharps).<br />
</font><font size="3">·</font>        <font size="3">Index finger across the throat = Take it out…NOW!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><u><font size="3">Don’t Talk, Just Sing<br />
</font></u><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">A Jazz gig is a collaboration where all of the players are involved. It is NOT a showcase for the singer. In other words, it is NOT a Cabaret Act. The people gathered to listen are Jazz enthusiasts, and are interested in the music and how the musicians on the stage, including the vocalist, interact with one another, rather than anecdotal accounts of the singer’s experience.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">That’s not to say, you can’t thank the crowd for the applause, or even announce the next tune, or acknowledge a soloist’s improvisation. It just means that you should keep the talking to a minimum. There is a place for patter, but a jazz gig is NOT that place.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Musicians with whom you are sharing the stage can become incensed when you start telling stories up there. It takes away from the music, breaks the flow that has been created, and steals the spotlight from the band as a whole to the singer alone.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And this leads us to the next item.<br />
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<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><em><font size="3">TO BE CONTINUED…<br />
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 16:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Attitude</category>
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	<category>Motivation &#038; Inspiration</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[(Previously, I started to touch on caring for your musicians, and I left you hanging when I mentioned an episode that involved a huge recording artist when I was on the road traveling with a big band.)

Here&#8217;s the rest of that story&#8230;

Our Band Bus had pulled into Harrah’s Club in Reno at about 8 AM after traveling [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font size="3"><em>(Previously, I started to touch on caring for your musicians, and I left you hanging when I mentioned an episode that involved a huge recording artist when I was on the road traveling with a big band.)</em></font></p>
<p><em><font size="3" /></em></p>
<p><font size="3">Here&#8217;s the rest of that story&#8230;</font></p>
<p><span /></p>
<p><font size="3">Our Band Bus had pulled into Harrah’s Club in Reno at about 8 AM after traveling all night from Anaheim, CA where we’d done several shows at Disneyland, as part their “Big Band Festival” that they always had every August.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">As soon as we exited the bus, a guy who met us, approached the leader and asked if the band could play back up for the headliner, whose band guys were stuck somewhere in Idaho and were not going to make it to the club in time for her opening night. It was only for one night, so our leader agreed to it, after the price was negotiated.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Everyone had been looking forward to sleeping between some clean sheets for several hours before the show. When you’re on the road for several months a year, this becomes special, to sleep in a hotel because it only happens 3 nights out of the week, the rest of time we sleep on the bus, (but that’s another story, heck, it’s another book).<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Well, the star of the show called a rehearsal for 1PM, so we went to our rooms, unpacked and did manage grab a few winks anyway.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">As it turned out, her charts were not exactly clear with regard to repeats, intro’s and tags, so the band had to play several times and attempt to figure out how they went. Normally, it’s customary in situations like this to ask the singer what some of the symbols on the charts mean, but this singer,<br />
</font><font size="3">not being able to read music herself was not helpful at all, and in fact became quite frustrated with the band, saying things like,<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">“What the Hell’s wrong with you people? Can’t you F***ing Read?”<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Or there were exchanges like, “Where’s my starting note? My band always give me my starting note”<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">“It’s not on the sheet, but we’ll be glad to add it”. (So the band would play the intro and include the song’s starting note in the last bar, which would be played by the piano).<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">“That’s not the way they do it. I need to hear it better. Can’t the trumpet play it? You guys are F***ing LAME!”<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I swear, I was in total shock!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Do you remember the 1979 movie with Dustin Hoffman and Meryl Streep, where a woman walks out on her husband and 4-year old child, and the young inexperienced dad is left to figure out how to parent his son? There’s a scene where Dustin Hoffman’s character is making breakfast, and his son is observing. As the waffle is being placed into the toaster, the boy announces, “That’s not right. That’s not the way Mom makes waffles. I want waffles that way MOM makes them”, and he runs out of the room.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Well, that’s the best way I can explain how this lady, a humungous star was acting during this rehearsal. Unbelievable!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">So the rehearsal, which should have taken about an hour, ended up taking 3 ½ hours, which included several instances of undeserved, foul-mouthed verbal abuse by this so-called “sweetheart” of song to guys who had agreed to back her up and literally save her opening night. They were not happy.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And if the afternoon was not difficult enough, that night, she abused them even further by insulting them in front of the audience, saying things like,<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">“I know this band sucks, but try to stay with me okay? These A**holes can’t do anything right, but my real band will be here by tomorrow, so be sure to come back, okay?”<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I was mortified and could not believe what I was witnessing. A big star like this who couldn’t read a note of music, could not answer simple questions from the musicians when they asked her, “What does this sign mean at Letter D?”, or “Are you coming at after 4 bars or 8”?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">She would just yell and use some epithet to deflect the fact that she knew nothing about the music she was singing.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And I must admit that as a singer myself, I felt embarrassed for her, yet, at the time, I have to admit, with guilty pleasure, I thoroughly enjoyed her total humiliation when the band deliberately played several sour notes that threw her off and made her leave the stage in a rage, while the audience laughed their heads off.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">She swore that the band would never work again, but as it turned out, it was she who was on her way to all kinds of trouble and pain, and while she HAS managed to hang on to her fan base, even today, I wonder how much tragedy in her life she could have avoided with a little more gratitude and less arrogance!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And as a 19 year-old watching this drama unfold, you can bet I took it all in with great interest, and counted my blessings that I knew how to read a chart and I silently vowed to always treat my band mates well.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I feel the need to mention here that since this incident, it has come out that this singer had a serious disorder and was also unfortunately addicted to pills, so maybe I can let her out of the  box on this one. After all, she was young, (only 2 years older than I at the time), and not all that stable to begin with.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">Oh and by the way, while I can’t mention this singer’s name, lest I be sued from here to Timbuktu, if you want her name, drop me a private email and I’ll tell ya who it was.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">My point is this.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Treat your musicians with civility and respect if you want to be treated that way yourself. And for Heaven’s sake, do NOT hide your inadequacies by making your band look bad. The band, the audience, and certainly the promoters can all see past that ploy, so you only demean yourself!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Let’s get really real here, singers! It’s easy to fall into a trap of self-importance when you’re being showered with the acceptance and accolades of applause…and all the “oohs” and “aahs” of your fans. Yes, I know!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">But you cannot imagine how much higher you can go when you use your talent to bring people together…in joyous celebration of friendship that makes them feel love for one another, not just for you. That’s the real prize and it produces highs you will never forget.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In my Book on </font><a href="http://www.singyourlife.com/books.htm"><font color="#800080" size="3">Promotion</font></a><font size="3">, I have a chapter on discovering who you are as a person as well as an artist BEFORE venturing out into the harsh realities of the music business. Part of that knowing is:<br />
</font></p>
<ul type="disc">
<li><font size="3">the GRATITUDE for the gifts you possess<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">HONORING your musicians<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">the APPRECIATION for your audiences<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">the CONSTANT THIRST for the continuation of your musical education<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">GIVING BACK to your source of power through your music.<br />
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</ul>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Sounds like lofty nonsense to many of you, I know…but hey! We’re just getting started!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">          TO BE CONTINUED…<br />
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		<title>INSTALLMENT #3 of &#8220;Get Off the Bandstand&#8221; is posted!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Aug 2009 15:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Attitude</category>
	<category>Performing</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[CHAPTER ONE
Who Do You Think You Are, Anyway?
 
If you wish to be viewed as a serious artist,  or even at the very least, a singer who obviously loves the music you are freely sharing in the world, it becomes necessary to put away your ego and realize what it is you really have here. What [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><u><font size="3">CHAPTER ONE<br />
</font></u><font size="3">Who Do You Think You Are, Anyway?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">If you wish to be viewed as a serious artist,  or even at the very least, a singer who obviously loves the music you are freely sharing in the world, it becomes necessary to put away your <strong>ego</strong> and realize what it is you really have here. What exactly is it, this talent of yours??�<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Did you invent it? When? How old were you? What was the original idea for this brilliance of yours? Is there a blueprint around we can examine?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Hardly, right? Obviously, if you look closely, you can see that you DID NOT create your talent. It’s a gift, pure and simple.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">It’s a talent that was given to you, most likely at birth, for which, in a perfect world, you in turn, say “thanks” to your Creator by offering it to others with the same intensity and profound love with which it was given to you.<br />
</font></strong><strong><font size="3"> </font></strong><strong><font size="3">Do You Get That?? Does it make sense to you?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></strong><font size="3"><strong>It’s a talent that was GIVEN to you, most likely at birth, for which you are more or less encouraged</strong><strong> by your Creator to SHARE it with others with the same intensity and profound love with which it was given to you.<br />
</strong></font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You do NOT use it to glorify yourself in arrogance, and self-promotion, although it’s certainly not a giant leap for the EGO to deduce that you must be special indeed to have been given a gift of this magnitude! And of course…you ARE…as are all of God’s children, including your audiences, your fellow musicians, your housekeeper, your mechanic, your enemies…(see where I’m going with this?)<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Now, I can hear you, singers! I hear you yelling back at me, “But , what are you saying, Chrys? That the only way to demonstrate how grateful we are for our talent is to humble ourselves when we perform? Shouldn’t we be strutting our stuff instead? What’s with all this humility…we’re not monks!!”<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Well, yes…and no! It would depend on what your definition of strutting is.<br />
</font><font size="3">If you mean showing off in a manner that suggests a message of<br />
</font><font size="3">“Look at me, you losers! I’m special, and you are NOT!”.<br />
</font><font size="3">Then, I would think that THAT was an ungrateful demonstration of your talent.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">But if you mean by strutting that you sing with zeal and passion, and celebrate your talent AND your ability to use it to turn people on with the joy you feel in your heart, then, okay! Strut away!!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I sorta prefer the term “gravitas” to more clearly describe the quality I am talking about.  It’s more of a dignity than a swagger. There is a certain substance or weightiness, or even a lordliness in the kind of person who walks in a glow of self-confidence and gratitude for what he has.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In a performer, it’s magical, and majestic! It’s the power to look into your eyes and go all the way to your soul…”Killing You Softly with His Song”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You can’t strut that kind of a gift. You really cannot!! It is this humble author’s view that this gift has to constantly be treated with honor, adoration and reverence. Come on! You DID NOT CREATE IT! It was GIVEN, and you DISCOVERED it inside of you! Bravo for THAT! Wow!! And THAT is why you share it, right?  It truly IS! Look!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">It’s like when you were a kid and you happened upon a shiny marble on the sidewalk. You couldn’t wait to find your friends and say, “Look at this! Look what I found! Isn’t it fabulous? Let’s play with this for a while!” That’s not swaggering or bragging, it sharing what you found with people that matter to you. And when you perform from this perspective, you are sending vibrations of love all over the place, and you are showered with the stuff in return.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Performing from this space in consciousness cannot be faked, singers! You have to mean it. That’s what I’m talking about when I tell you singers to establish a relationship with your audience, and to find something special about them and to love them.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And you also have to love your musicians.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">The feelings that travel among each of you on stage becomes PART of the songs you are singing so you HAVE to love and respect and admire your musicians.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Let me tell you a little story to more correctly make my point on this particular issue about loving your musicians.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I was traveling around the country several years ago with a big band, and when I say “big band”, I am talking about a particular genre of music called “Big Band”. It refers to the 18-piece bands of the 40’s and 50’s like Glenn Miller, Woody Herman, the Dorsey Brothers and people like that.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I traveled with the Les and Larry Elgart big band back in the early 60’s and also with Si Zentner’s Band, and The Tommy Dorsey Orchestra under the direction of Sam Donahue for several years.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">There were occasions when the band was backing up a big name singer in Vegas or Reno, or somewhere, and on those occasions I would get the night off. I never stopped being totally star struck by some of the big stars that were backed up by the bands I was on…singers I grew up adoring, like Mel Torme, Johnny Ray,  Nancy Wilson, Connie Francis, and people like that.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">So, even if I had the night off, there was no way I wasn’t going to stand in the wings and watch these people I loved perform, and dream about reaching the heights that they already had attained.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">99% of the time, my “idols” did not disappoint…except for this one time…</font></strong></p>
<p><strong><font size="3" /></strong></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">to be continued&#8230;.</font></strong><strong><font size="3"> </font></strong>
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		<title>Get Off the Bandstand! (The Rules of Behavior for the Aspiring Jazz Singer) PART TWO!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 15:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Previously…I compared being a working professional singer to a tennis player…each making a living and a life by doing what he or she loves to do, and while they dream of stardom and fortune, they play by the rules of the game of the present moment.
  
In Tennis, there have only been 6 players in the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><em><font size="3">Previously…I compared being a working professional singer to a tennis player…each making a living and a life by doing what he or she loves to do, and while they dream of stardom and fortune, they play by the rules of the game of the present moment.<br />
</font></em><font size="3"> </font> </p>
<p><font size="3">In Tennis, there have only been 6 players in the history of the sport, who have won all 4 Grand Slam Tennis Events. And only 2 of those 6 have won on 4 completely different surfaces! Those 6 players are well-known all over the world, while there are thousands more players who make a good living playing tennis, and while they will win a tournament here and there, are not widely known.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">Good, all around tennis players, just like good all-around singers can make a living doing what they love, and what could be better than that! Not everyone’s gonna end up at the top of the game or in the record books, and that should NOT be the goal anyway. The goal is to do what we LOVE more than anything.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">This book is geared toward Jazz Singers and Singing, which is a specific genre and has with it very specific set of rules that the singer should follow to be considered a true pro!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And, by the way, when I talk about singing Jazz, I am not referring to what they call “Smooth Jazz”, or “New Jazz”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I don’t even know what <strong>that is</strong>, but the songs and styles I hear, either of which are referred to with that moniker are NOT Jazz in this author’s humble opinion.  Elevator renditions of a Jazz standard, played by John Tesh is NOT Jazz!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">When I talk about Jazz, I am speaking with reverence about an art form created, in the cotton fields down south by singing slaves; nurtured by the<font face="Times New Roman"> </font>melodic stylings of Louis Armstrong and the chaotic expression of Ornette Coleman, and continuously expanded in its rhythms and harmonic patterns by people from Scott Joplin at the start of the 20<sup>th</sup> century, to Miles Davis, Ella Fitzgerald, John Coltrane in the mid-20<sup>th</sup> century, and <span lang="EN">Chick Corea, and Wynton Marsalis into the 21<sup>st</sup> century! And does not include anything played by Kenny G or Yanni!<br />
</span></font><span lang="EN"><font size="3"> </font></span><span lang="EN"><strong><font size="3">Jazz is one of America&#8217;s greatest exports.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></span><font size="3">It is the first truly American musical genre,  and was recognized by Congress in 1987 as a national treasure.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><span lang="EN"><font size="3">Thanks to countless performers and innovators over the course of centuries, jazz has risen to become one of the most respected musical genres in the world.<br />
</font></span><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And if you wish to sing jazz and be called a singer of jazz, don’t just learn how to scat…study the history of jazz and connect with its soul.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">It’s more than technique, it’s so much more than dexterity, It’s a pure and unadulterated American Art form to be respected and to be proud of!<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And there are rules that don’t exist in other musical forms…rules of behavior on the bandstand, rules of understanding the particular language of jazz, and well….that’s what this book is about!<br />
</font></div>
<p><br clear="all" /><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I’ve been a voice teacher for 30+ years. There are literally thousands of us in the world, and, as in any educational field, some of us are better at it than others.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I don’t claim to be the best voice teacher out there. There are better technicians than I for certain; many classically-trained vocalists who understand the anatomical aspects of singing far better than I do, and whose methods, I think, should definitely all be attempted by the aspirant to see which works best for him or her as a student of voice. Trying on singing methods is much like trying on songs to sing, or trying on coats for that matter. You try different ones on until you find the one that FITS!!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Learning from a teacher is totally subjective. The bottom line is, if you “click” with your teacher, you are able to learn from that person. If you don’t “click”, then it doesn’t matter how accomplished he or she is, how many famous clients he or she has taught, or how expensive or inexpensive the fees are.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">The fact remains that you cannot learn and get better as a singer with a teacher or coach with whom you just don’t connect.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Personally, I spend just about 6 weeks training voices to sing, the reason being that 6 weeks is the maximum amount of time it takes to put certain principles of singing on auto-pilot, such as;  the breathing, the sound creation, (diaphragm control), the body’s resonation centers, and the Seven Deadly Sins of Singing which are to be avoided.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">That’s pretty much all of what I teach to beginning students. I leave it up to the individual singer to practice the drills I design for each specific concern he or she may have about his/her voice. If the student is dedicated and seriously committed to his/her singing, the 5-10 minutes a day of drilling is not much to ask, and the results are amazing!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">But, almost any decent voice teacher can do that for a student.<br />
</font></strong><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Where my joy and fulfillment lies is in the performance aspect of singing…and in helping a singer to discover his own voice, his sense of musicality, purpose, and ultimately, his total power through his vocal performance to alter Energy, and subsequently, Matter!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And while I am no scientist, everything I teach, write about, or talk about with my students is based on empirical knowledge, that is knowledge which has been informed by my own personal experience.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">So when I say that a performance can move energy, I say it because I’ve seen it happen…and often!<br />
</font></strong><strong><font size="3"> </font></strong><strong><font size="3">This principle is widely known and accepted in the world of sports, where a particular athlete’s performance can so move the observers’ that they in turn will literally send him or her the positive energy required to accomplish the goal at hand.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></strong><font size="3">This is true in almost all sporting events, but most easily understood when a single athlete is performing a feat, like playing tennis, golf, diving, or standing at the plate with a bat. The crowd becomes a “partner” in the process of achievement and each member of the observing crowd will literally feel the joy or agony of the result…as deeply as the athlete himself.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In tennis, for example, when a player is an audience favorite, the opponent will want to start the match with a flair of winning points, specifically to “take the crowd out of it”, meaning to quiet their cheers and leave the favored player with no energy with which to fight except his/ her own.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Baseball fans are celebrated as the “10<sup>th</sup> man on the field”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And for a singer, there is nothing more meaningful and deeply felt than the audience’s applause, that symbol of love and devotion that all artists crave. For some, once they have experienced the feeling of a standing ovation, they can never be satisfied with anything less ever again.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><strong><font size="3">There is, however, a price to be paid for that kind of love!<br />
</font></strong><font size="3">�<br />
</font><font size="3">Or perhaps a more appropriate way to put it is…there needs to be a certain reverence shown to the art form itself for its ability to produce joy, and sadness, exhilaration, and despair, hope, and love that nothing else can produce.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">We as singers of song, need to be profoundly and utterly grateful for this gift we have been blessed with by the creator of all that is.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">We didn’t invent it. We didn’t manufacture it, and we can never take it for granted or treat it with egotistical arrogance or stupidity!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And I have written this book to demonstrate what I believe is the appropriate way to carry this gift and cherish it, treasure it, and guard it, lest it be taken away in a flash!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">So we’ll talk about how to work with musicians, writers, producers and promoters in a way that honors your talent…but also theirs!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">In addition, we’ll be covering some helpful hints on dealing with fans and customers. (This section will be quite amusing, and sometimes scary, so be sure to stick around for that!)<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And we’ll discuss your ability and willingness to adhere to the rules of the road on a bandstand…in other words the things you need to know…which are so much more than just the song you’re singing.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">So off we go…into the world of the professional singer/musician!<br />
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<p><font size="3">TO BE CONTINUED…<br />
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 16:33:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Attitude</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hope your Summer, wherever you may be is giving you an opportunity to rest and appreciate all the great things in your life. I truly believe that it&#8217;s that appreciation, that fuels the continuation of those great things.
And don&#8217;t I get more and more philosophical each month???
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hope your Summer, wherever you may be is giving you an opportunity to rest and appreciate all the great things in your life. I truly believe that it&#8217;s <strong>that</strong> appreciation, that fuels the continuation of those great things.</p>
<p>And don&#8217;t I get more and more philosophical each month???</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been doing a lot of thinking about this blog&#8230;its value as entertainment as well as my own seemingly endless pontifications on the subject of singing and all its aspects.</p>
<p>My sister forwarded something to me a few months ago by an author named Sara Davidson. It was in a blog format, but it was actually a story in serial form and each month her blog would be a continuation of the story she was telling. While I actually found the story a little silly, something about love and sex after the age the age of 50, and why even at that age, a woman cannot seem to identify a DOG when she sees one, I kinda liked the idea of the serial format.</p>
<p>So&#8230;.I have decided to serialize my next book for you, my loyal readers. You get to read it way before it even goes to the publishers, and your comments will really help me when the time comes for final edits, so thanks in advance for that, singers.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the first installment of <strong>&#8220;Get off the Bandstand&#8221;,</strong> OR (The Rules of Behavior for the Aspiring Jazz Singer).</p>
<p><font size="3">Introduction:<br />
</font><font size="3">This guidebook is designed specifically for those singers who wish to pursue, or are already pursuing a career as a Jazz Singer. It doesn’t apply to any other vocal genre. And that being said, let me take a moment here to explain why that is before getting on with this book.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">It is widely understood in the world of Tennis, that in order to be considered a complete player, one who is rated among the very best in the world, year after year after year, the player must be able to perform on a variety of surfaces.<br />
</font><font size="3">On other words, the player should be as comfortable on a grass court as he or she is on a clay court, a hard court, or an indoor carpeted court.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">Each court demands a completely separate set of skills from the player because each surface creates different challenges. For example, the ball will tend to bounce differently, lower, or end up in an unexpected position on grass where there are dips and even holes on the surface, than on a hard concrete court where there are none. Or, while one needs to be able to run to the ball on a grass court, he will have to perfect a sliding technique on clay to be a consistent winner.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">The thing is that to be a truly consistent and top rated player, one must be able to negotiate all surfaces accurately and play according to the protocols inherent in each surface.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And it’s the same for singers. Every gig is different. A singer cannot perform at a wedding the same way he/she does at a cabaret gig. And let me tell you ladies that if you try, you’ll probably never work a wedding again. Why? Because “stealing” the spotlight from the bride is a big “no no” in the wedding reception business. The guests are not at all interested in the singer’s little self-aggrandizing anecdotes. They just wanna dance!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">And while you may be sitting there reading this and thinking, “Who cares about that? I will never work a wedding gig.  Those are lame. I’m too good for that”, let me tell you that playing weddings can pay your rent for a year or more while you’re perfecting your scatting, building your book, or practicing your instrument.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p align="center"><strong><font size="3">Every Gig is Different!</font></strong></p>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3" /></font><font size="3"><font size="3"></p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">If you get a call to sing back-up at a recording session, this is NOT an opportunity to try out your audition piece for American Idol. You see that, don’t you? Singing backup requires something different, something subdued, without too much vibrato that might make you stick out, because that’s the job you’ve been called to do.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">How about a restaurant looking for dinner music? Is this the appropriate venue for a loud, bombastic “Come to the Cabaret”-type number, or maybe your stories of childhood and how you learned the song you’re about to sing?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">When a restaurant owner says he wants dinner music, he means SOFT…elevator-style, the kind of music that people can converse over in levels no louder than a whisper.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p></font><font size="3">The other factors distinguishing the differences inherent in singing jobs are not just the venue differences, but the genre differences.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">There are experienced, competent singers, who work consistently, who pay their bills on their earnings from singing, who never become a famous celebrity, but who make a living AND a life doing what they love.<br />
</font><font size="3">They are as comfortable in an high class private country club with plush, elegant furnishings as they are in a bar with sawdust on the floor. They can sing in a variety of styles, like requests put forth by the customers, be it a 40’s big band tune, or a country song, or a bossa nova, or even a show tune, or a jazz standard.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">These artists, and called <strong>Journeymen</strong>, (that is any experienced, competent but mostly unknown and uncelebrated performers).<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">There are thousands of journeymen in the music business, including guitar and keyboard players, saxophone and trumpet players, bassists, flutists, harpists, violinists, cellists, drummers, and yes, singers, all doing what they love for a living, and loving what they do every day.�<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3"><strong>These are the working professionals of the music business, and while they…[we] </strong></font><strong><font size="3">understand that every gig is different, and while it remains the dream of every one of them [us] to just DO OUR ACT, stand up there and express our deepest feelings, with our favorite songs, the ones that perfectly express our essence and which are arranged exquisitely, the way we want them; and our warm and witty stories that hold the audiences attention in an utter delightful magnetic clasp that only releases them when we are through, and the perfect venue where the plates and glasses make no noise when we are on the stage, and where the lighting is perfect and the sound system is set to the most attractive equalization for our voice, and one where every eye in the house is on US…Aaah YES! While we dream all of that, we also know the reality!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font> </strong></p>
<p><font size="3">And that is that if we wish to work as professionals, we can almost assuredly count on being called upon to play, (sing) on different “surfaces” (venues), using a variety of strokes, (sing in a variety of genres, like Country, Jazz, Pop, Rock etc.), and need to be competent in every single one!<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">A working singer’s schedule for just 2 days: (sample)<br />
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<p><font size="3">Monday<br />
</font></p>
<ul type="disc">
<li><font size="3">10AM – back-up singing gig at ABC Recording Studio, (no rehearsal – need to read it)<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">2PM – Ladies Auxiliary Luncheon and Fashion Show<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">7PM – Happy Hour at the XYZ Bar and Grill<br />
</font></li>
</ul>
<p><font size="3">Tuesday<br />
</font></p>
<ul type="disc">
<li><font size="3">11AM – Art Gallery Opening – (may need to emcee)<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">5PM -  Cocktail Party at the GHI Hotel – Ballroom A<br />
</font></li>
<li><font size="3">9PM – Dance at the VFW, (may go overtime)<br />
</font></li>
</ul>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">Naturally, every single journeyman performer aspires to greatness, fortune, and celebrity. The point here is that although that’s very true, one has to play by the rules of the game that are being played in the present moment!</font></font></font></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CoachChrys</dc:creator>
		
	<category>Attitude</category>
	<category>Performing</category>
	<category>Vocal Basics</category>
	<category>Motivation &#038; Inspiration</category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Again, Singers!
 
Happy July!! Hard to believe that 2009 is half over…already! Harder than that though to believe is the fact that my son is turning 40 this month, and my granddaughter is turning Sweet 16! How can that be?
 
This month, I want to extend an invitation to each of you who read my newsletter, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font size="3">Hello Again, Singers!<br />
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<p><font size="3">Happy July!! Hard to believe that 2009 is half over…already! Harder than that though to believe is the fact that my son is turning 40 this month, and my granddaughter is turning Sweet 16! How can that be?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">This month, I want to extend an invitation to each of you who read my newsletter, whether or not you are member of our Sing Your Life Community Singers Network,  to submit question to me about singing, performing, or music in general, and have me answer it for you either publicly or privately.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I’m doing this not merely to be nice, (which of course I am, I think…I hope), but because I have recently been reminded of the principle of “giving back”, and its power to heal, you know…like tithing.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">For 9 years now, whether you are aware of it or not, you singers have given me reasons to get out of bed every day and look for ways to serve you and your singing goals.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You have provided me with endless moments of joy and satisfaction, and although our community of singers is growing every day, there are so many of you out there that I still need to reach, and to whom I want to be available for whatever is showing up in your life as a singer.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I had an absolutely lovely gift this past Sunday. A lady in my town, a senior, had asked around for a voice teacher because she secretly yearned to learn how to sing for most of her life, but was afraid and shy to ever try.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I was recommended to her, and when we met for the first session, she explained to me that she was being urged to enter this contest we have here in Corpus Christi called the “Miss Coastal Bend Senior” Pageant, and that she wanted her “talent” portion to be singing, but that she was afraid to sing in front of people.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">We started working together immediately since there were only 6 weeks left before the pageant. Her voice was fairly weak and she was very nervous and insecure…at first. However slowly, over the next month and a half, she got stronger…better…more confident, and on Sunday, she WON THE CONTEST!!</font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><img title="Winner of Senior Pageant" height="112" alt="Winner of Senior Pageant" src="http://www.singyourlife.com/aboutus/links/maryhelen.jpg" width="158" align="left" /></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><img title="winner2" height="232" alt="winner2" src="http://www.singyourlife.com/aboutus/links/maryhelen2.jpg" width="157" align="middle" /> </font><font size="3"><font size="3">She now goes to Dallas for the State pageant and may make it to the Nationals! </font><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">I’ve included these photos of my student who I’m so very proud of and let you guys SEE for yourselves what is possible when you ALLOW it to come into your life.<br />
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<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">Read on…<br />
</font></font></font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font></font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">It’s a human thing to want always to be right, and to feel secure with what we know. But let me tell you singers, that it is in the insecure moments, the weaker moments, the less certain positions we take, where the inner growth truly occurs.</font></font></font></font></font></p>
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</font></font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">I’ve been physically challenged since September of 2008 when I received some terrible news about a certain medical condition. Now let me tell you that I make it a point to steer clear of what I call MP’s, (no, not Military Police…Medical Professionals), for my entire adult life. I have never thought they knew anymore about the human body than any lat person could know, I never trusted a single MO to ever be straight with me, and I always said to anyone who would listen, </font><font size="3">“I live inside this body, and as long as I’m in here, nothing bad can happen to it”.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">A bold statement to be sure, and quite boastfully declared, but maybe not so certain have I always been of it, even as I said it.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">So when my fiercely guarded OPINIONS were poked full of holes last Fall, I was scared to death at first, and over the subsequent months since, enormously humbled by the experience. And it IS, I have found, this HUMILITY, which has g</font><font size="3">iven me the chance to know more than I ever thought I knew before.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">You’ve probably read it in the more recent newsletters…like when I have talked about not wanting to be so perfect, or letting go of your ego, and all that. This inner humility is where it’s been coming from, but also from a profound sense of love that I have for you singers, who have hung around for 9 years reading my stuff and offering your comments and encouragement. I don’t even know where to start with my thanks.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">It IS however, why I decided to create the Sing Your Life Community site as a companion to the original website, and why I want to entertain your questions, whatever they may be.<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3">I’ve started a Q&#038;A Video Series and we’ve already covered questions like:<br />
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<li><em><font size="3">Is it okay to close my eyes when I sing?<br />
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<li><font size="3"><em>Can I drastically change the sound of my singing voice</em>?<em><br />
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<li><em><font size="3">How do control my breathing when I sing?<br />
</font></em></li>
<li><em><font size="3">How do I get over my stage fright?<br />
</font></em></li>
</ul>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">I’ve included a link to one of those sessions here for you to view as a sample of some of the things we do at our online community, and what a private session with me using Skype or Yahoo Messenger would look like.</font></font></font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><a href="http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/qa-session-2-breath-control"><strong>http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/qa-session-2-breath-control</strong></a><font size="3"><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">Okay, so let’s get back to my original point! The one about the preconceived opinions we humans seem to have  a very difficult time letting go of sometimes.</font></font></font></font></font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><br />
</font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">If you will, even in your alone time, when there’s no one to impress with your knowledge and your abilities, admit that you don’t always have the answers to your life, your circumstances, your condition, and become humble enough to at least entertain another point of view from your own, some interesting and often wonderful things can occur, singers.</font></font></font></font></font></p>
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<font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">And this includes opportunities for going further than you ever thought possible, just like my student who won the Miss Coastal Bend Senior Pageant.<br />
</font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font></font></p>
<p></font></font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">So, let me implore you singers to not be so stubborn about what you already know. Do you really know it ALL? Can you let go of your certainties, and allow your brain to take in new information that may not agree with your “already always” preconceived notions and opinions?<br />
</font><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"> </font></font></font></font><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3"><font size="3">There is always time for climbing to new heights as a singer, heck! As a person! Just by existing, we have that opportunity. And we don’t run out of them until we’re in the ground!</font></p>
<p></font><font size="3">Please visit here to listen to my last performance, as the featured jazz singer in great demand here in Corpus Christi! </font></p>
<p><font size="3"><a href="http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/song-it-could-happen-to-you"><strong>http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/song-it-could-happen-to-you</strong></a></font></p>
<p><a href="http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/jazz-gig-water-street-walk-of"><strong>http://singyourlife.ning.com/video/jazz-gig-water-street-walk-of</strong></a></p>
<p><font size="3">Over these last nine years, there have been moments when I just wanted to quit singing, quit teaching, quit writing newsletters that nobody read, and every single time, one of YOU, who I have never met, wrote to tell me of something wonderful that happened to you or something that you gained and attributed to some article I had written…and I was rejuvenated. So y’think I’m not profoundly grateful to you?? I AM!<br />
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<p><font size="3">You singers have, and always will have a significant place in my heart!<br />
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<p><font size="3">I want you guys to value yourselves as much I do by not giving up on your talent, and not quitting your dreams, okay???<br />
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<p><font size="3">I am working on coming to LA for my annual performance workshop that I conduct and I will notify you SoCal’ers of dates as soon as I have ‘em.<br />
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<p><font size="3">Keep singin’, people!!<br />
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<p><font size="3">Until next time…<br />
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<p><font size="3">Sin[g]cerely,<br />
</font><em><font size="3">Chrys<br />
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